such would not mean anything to him since he would not be there
to appreciate it.
The meeting with the four children, which he said came after he
had consulted almost all those that mattered before joining the presidential
race, was held in New York.
He said it was ironic that Iyabo became a senator during his
tenure.
Meanwhile, before being elected a senator, Iyabo was appointed a
commissioner by Otunba Gbenga Daniel, while he was serving as governor of Ogun
State.
Obasanjo said, “My mind was almost made up (to vie for the
position of President) but I had to consult with my children. I got four of
them together in New York.
“I told them I was going to decide
whether to go into politics or not. Iyabo was the most antagonistic.
“She burst out loudly, ‘I know you
will join and you will die there and if you die, I will not weep.’
“I told her ‘if I die and you weep,
it is for yourself and others, not for me as I will not know you are weeping.’
“It is ironic that within 10 years,
Iyabo became a Senator and I completed two terms of eight years without a
scratch.”
The former President added that out of the four children in
attendance when he spoke with them, it was only Segun who he said, had a few
words of encouragement.
The son, according to Obasanjo, said, “Daddy, you have always
said that we must serve God and humanity and if this is the way you have chosen
to serve God and humanity, I will pray for you.”
With those words from his son coupled with the words of
encouragement he said he got from those he had spoken with earlier, the
Owu-born retired general said “the die was almost cast.”
In the book, Obasanjo also mentioned the names of his 21
children. He was however silent on the number of his wives or the mothers of
the children. Five of the children are holders of PhD in different fields.
The children are Iyabo (PhD), who is the eldest; Busola,
Segun(PhD), Gbenga(PhD), Deboye, Muyiwa, Funke, Bola (PhD) and Seun (PhD).
Also listed were Dare, Kofo, Dayo, Biyi, Bisoye, Damilola,
Jonwo, Bunmi, Funso, Dayo, Toyosi and Bukola.
The listing and mentioning of the names of his children was the
first time the two-time President of Nigeria, would publicly talk about his
children.
In the book, Obasanjo also extolled his late wife, Stella who he
said had to contend with violent nature of his divorced wife.
He said he decided to bring Stella to his house after the
dissolution of his first marriage in a Lagos High Court by Justice Dosumu.
Stella, he added, was “one of the women who had children for me.”
The former President noted that in the course of his marriage to
Stella, she handled four major issues most admirably.
The issues, according to him, included “constant harassment at
home through telephone calls and name-calling, and physical and violent
confrontation in the streets by my divorced wife.”
Obasanjo added that Stella tried to avoid exchange, but said
that he got at least one report of close combat where both inflicted wounds on
each other at his farm when he was not there.
He also commended his late wife for taking proper care of his
other children and also visiting him on many occasions while he was in Jos and
Yola prisons.
He regretted the death of the former First Lady, who he said was
very close to him, but added that it was after her death that he got to know
that the desire to celebrate her 60th birthday made her to embark on stomach
operation without his knowledge.
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